Worldwatch newsletter mentioned sex ed in environmental issues. Which brought to my ming two ways in my own texts that sexuality could help in environmental matters:
http://finnishskills.blogspot.
"D6. About summer love (from this blog's text about the healthy
natural ages old ways of living, advice 173. yet not translated):
"If one tries to live according to a more sexual reputation than what
one feels right and natural for oneself, one easily feels agitated and
tired since the relationships and life do not work out as well as they
should. So if one wants to be more sexual with roughly all of the
opposite sex to get social contacts work out well, the sex roles are
good for that, but one should not take whatever role or the most
recommended role but instead find the one that is most natural for
oneself, gives best life, is something that you easily fall into on
free time, something from which you find good life and nice things to
do that just you happent olike, so that you are active and in a good
mood with a good spirit and so in associating with people momentarily
or going to shops and such, maybe one third of the opposite sex makes
you think "Oh a woman" or "Oh a man" somehow handsomely, charmingly,
pleasantly and you get well along.
On the other hand if you search for how you yourself would be very
sexual and charming, then living Life with a big L, while searching
for better life according to the rule "Live and let others live" (see
this blog's text about it and it's link), maybe brings such in those
circles which you like, to which you want to anchor your life." "
See also my book at a link from the first post at
http://workandfreetime.
working ability, skills and energy plus learning skills for life.
* * *
21.8.2017 Lisään tämän tähän, kun luulisin tämän toimivan ihan ok, siis ohje, miten mies voisi löytää naisen, jonka kanssa saada lapsen:
"
"
tämän kanssa olisi hyvä, ettei jää mihin tahansa lokeroon, missä sattuu olemaan, vaan etsii itselleen sopivan, ihanteensa:
Vuodenaikakirjoituksestani http://opisuomalaisuus.blogspot.fi/2014/02/vuodenkierto-ja-henkinen-hyvinvointi.html
"D6. Kesäheiloista (lainaus tämän blogin kohdasta terveet elämäntavat, ohje 173.):
"Jos yrittää elää seksuaalisemman maineen mukaan kuin minkä tuntee oikeaksi ja itselleen luontevaksi, niin helposti menee pinna kireälle, kun eivät suhteet ja elämä suju niin mukavasti kuin pitäisi. Jos haluaa olla enemmän seksuaalinen vähän kaikkien vastakkaisen sukupuolen edustajien kanssa, niin että siitä on itselle hyötyä asioiden sujuessa paremmin, niin sukupuoliroolit ovat siihen hyvät, muttei pidä omaksua mitä tahansa tai kehutuinta versiota oman sukupuolen roolista vaan itselle sopivin, johon vapaa-ajalla mielellään luiskahtaisi, josta hyvää elämää saisi ja itselleen sopivaa tekemistä, niin on sitten menevä ja hyväntuulinen ja ohimenevissä kohtaamisissa tai asioilla ehkä kolmannes vastakkaisen sukupuolen edustajista menee lokeroon "Ai nainen" tai "Ai mies" jotenkin komeasti, viehättävästi, miellyttävästi ja kanssakäyminen sujuu.
Toisaalta jos etsii sitä, miten itse olisi kovin seksuaalinen ja viehättävä, niin Elämä isolla E:llä säännön "Elä ja anna toisten elää" mukaan parempaan elämään suunnistaen tuo kai sellaista niissä ympyröissä, joista pitää, joihin haluaa ankkuroitua.""
Haaveammattiin-blogini lokeronvaihto-ohjeet http://nopeaoppisuus.blogspot.fi
ja aiempi kirjoitukseni parin löytämisestä:
"
Advice for dating and finding new friends
Dress according to your ideals, so people who share the same ideals will find you interesting and start a conversation with you. Avoid pretending to be really like a role that is forced upon you by some custom or for some other reason that is none of your doing, since if you do, you will attract the same kind of bull shit pourn upon you by those who are for that shit.
Likewise, take the first steps on the road toward living totally according to what you consider the ideal way to live. That way you go to places where people are interested in just those things that you consider to be of major importance in life – and avoid going to the opposite kind of meetings which support th things that you wanna get rid of. That way you can have something to talk about your values to others, and so they are much more likely to introduce you to other people that they know who share the same values. Besides, that gives you a much more fulfilling life even a long time before you meet anyone of interest to you. And when you meet such people, you know that you share the same values because you have done something in practice to cultivat them. You are not just a liar claiming to love something, you are one who has actually taken the first steps to dedicate one’s life to the way of living that just you love and admire. Living against your own opinion of what real life is based on drains you, makes you weak, uninspirated, unmotivated, exhausted, makes you uninteresting in the eyes of others – makes you lean on others for fulfillment because you cannot follow your own values yourself but need others to overdo them for you. You can be just thrilled to just say hello to a friend with a soul like yours, while even deep friendship with a wrong type of person for your taste leaves you bored and uninterested.
Do not believe that opposites attract. Those with opposite values in how life ought to be lived typically get classified as enemies. It is the person who shares your goals in life and can help you on the way, that is a good choice for you. That person often has different strengths than you but enjoys your company especially much, like you hers/his. Theere are people with all kinds of views to life in the both sexes. Just those different views together with our different strengths and different social environments and situations of life make our characters different. So pleas do not try to compete with anyone else, since they are all looking for a different kind of mate. Just follow your own taste and build a rewarding social relationship, a sincere friendship mixed with love."
http://yksinaisille.blogspot.fi
http://finnishskills.blogspot.
"D6. About summer love (from this blog's text about the healthy
natural ages old ways of living, advice 173. yet not translated):
"If one tries to live according to a more sexual reputation than what
one feels right and natural for oneself, one easily feels agitated and
tired since the relationships and life do not work out as well as they
should. So if one wants to be more sexual with roughly all of the
opposite sex to get social contacts work out well, the sex roles are
good for that, but one should not take whatever role or the most
recommended role but instead find the one that is most natural for
oneself, gives best life, is something that you easily fall into on
free time, something from which you find good life and nice things to
do that just you happent olike, so that you are active and in a good
mood with a good spirit and so in associating with people momentarily
or going to shops and such, maybe one third of the opposite sex makes
you think "Oh a woman" or "Oh a man" somehow handsomely, charmingly,
pleasantly and you get well along.
On the other hand if you search for how you yourself would be very
sexual and charming, then living Life with a big L, while searching
for better life according to the rule "Live and let others live" (see
this blog's text about it and it's link), maybe brings such in those
circles which you like, to which you want to anchor your life." "
See also my book at a link from the first post at
http://workandfreetime.
working ability, skills and energy plus learning skills for life.
* * *
21.8.2017 Lisään tämän tähän, kun luulisin tämän toimivan ihan ok, siis ohje, miten mies voisi löytää naisen, jonka kanssa saada lapsen:
"
Millainen charmi
Mietin tuota, että arveleekohan moni mies myyjällä olevan monta naista ja kyselee siitä mallia. Mutta charmi ei ole viuh vau kuin tuotteen hienous vaan jotakin vähemmän kolhivaa, enemmän uomioon ottavaa, enemmän muille hyvä kuin vain suorittajalle itselleen. Miesvalinnassa on kai se, että miehellä on jokin mukava piirre, josta pitää, tai hieno lahjakkuus, jonka haluaa oppia, ja että lisäksi hän on muuten ihan ok luonne, arkiasioissa kyllin taitava ja jotenkin sopivantyyppinen elämäntavaltaan. Jollei olisi ok, niin ei voisi sellaisen kanssa käytännössä elellä. Jollei ole mitään elämäntavan hienoutta, viihtyisyyttä, toimivuutta tms, niin ei ole vetovoimatekijää. Mutta jos ne molemmat on elämäntavasta, josta itse pitää, niin luulisi sellaisesta pitävän naisen löytyvän rinnalle, jos niistä harrastuneista ympyröistä etsii. Lapsena opitaan taitoja vanhemmilta, koulussa ja harrastuksissa. Myöhemmin voi oppia helpommin taitoja omin päin ja harrastuksissa, katso esim. blogini http://nopeaoppisuus.blogspot.fi ( ja ehkä http://tunteetjatekemisentapa.blogspot.fi sekä http://opisuomalaisuus.blogspot.fi/2014/03/terveet-elamantavat.html )."
tämän kanssa olisi hyvä, ettei jää mihin tahansa lokeroon, missä sattuu olemaan, vaan etsii itselleen sopivan, ihanteensa:
Vuodenaikakirjoituksestani http://opisuomalaisuus.blogspot.fi/2014/02/vuodenkierto-ja-henkinen-hyvinvointi.html
"D6. Kesäheiloista (lainaus tämän blogin kohdasta terveet elämäntavat, ohje 173.):
"Jos yrittää elää seksuaalisemman maineen mukaan kuin minkä tuntee oikeaksi ja itselleen luontevaksi, niin helposti menee pinna kireälle, kun eivät suhteet ja elämä suju niin mukavasti kuin pitäisi. Jos haluaa olla enemmän seksuaalinen vähän kaikkien vastakkaisen sukupuolen edustajien kanssa, niin että siitä on itselle hyötyä asioiden sujuessa paremmin, niin sukupuoliroolit ovat siihen hyvät, muttei pidä omaksua mitä tahansa tai kehutuinta versiota oman sukupuolen roolista vaan itselle sopivin, johon vapaa-ajalla mielellään luiskahtaisi, josta hyvää elämää saisi ja itselleen sopivaa tekemistä, niin on sitten menevä ja hyväntuulinen ja ohimenevissä kohtaamisissa tai asioilla ehkä kolmannes vastakkaisen sukupuolen edustajista menee lokeroon "Ai nainen" tai "Ai mies" jotenkin komeasti, viehättävästi, miellyttävästi ja kanssakäyminen sujuu.
Toisaalta jos etsii sitä, miten itse olisi kovin seksuaalinen ja viehättävä, niin Elämä isolla E:llä säännön "Elä ja anna toisten elää" mukaan parempaan elämään suunnistaen tuo kai sellaista niissä ympyröissä, joista pitää, joihin haluaa ankkuroitua.""
Haaveammattiin-blogini lokeronvaihto-ohjeet http://nopeaoppisuus.blogspot.fi
ja aiempi kirjoitukseni parin löytämisestä:
"
Advice for dating and finding new friends
Dress according to your ideals, so people who share the same ideals will find you interesting and start a conversation with you. Avoid pretending to be really like a role that is forced upon you by some custom or for some other reason that is none of your doing, since if you do, you will attract the same kind of bull shit pourn upon you by those who are for that shit.
Likewise, take the first steps on the road toward living totally according to what you consider the ideal way to live. That way you go to places where people are interested in just those things that you consider to be of major importance in life – and avoid going to the opposite kind of meetings which support th things that you wanna get rid of. That way you can have something to talk about your values to others, and so they are much more likely to introduce you to other people that they know who share the same values. Besides, that gives you a much more fulfilling life even a long time before you meet anyone of interest to you. And when you meet such people, you know that you share the same values because you have done something in practice to cultivat them. You are not just a liar claiming to love something, you are one who has actually taken the first steps to dedicate one’s life to the way of living that just you love and admire. Living against your own opinion of what real life is based on drains you, makes you weak, uninspirated, unmotivated, exhausted, makes you uninteresting in the eyes of others – makes you lean on others for fulfillment because you cannot follow your own values yourself but need others to overdo them for you. You can be just thrilled to just say hello to a friend with a soul like yours, while even deep friendship with a wrong type of person for your taste leaves you bored and uninterested.
Do not believe that opposites attract. Those with opposite values in how life ought to be lived typically get classified as enemies. It is the person who shares your goals in life and can help you on the way, that is a good choice for you. That person often has different strengths than you but enjoys your company especially much, like you hers/his. Theere are people with all kinds of views to life in the both sexes. Just those different views together with our different strengths and different social environments and situations of life make our characters different. So pleas do not try to compete with anyone else, since they are all looking for a different kind of mate. Just follow your own taste and build a rewarding social relationship, a sincere friendship mixed with love."
http://yksinaisille.blogspot.fi
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